All women pick. It's in our DNA.

It's our little way of showing that we care.

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One of the signs that a female gorilla is in love

is that she can be seen picking nits off her male companion.

And yet in humans,

nit picking can ruin a perfectly good evening.

Not to mention a relationship.

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Women are known to be more verbal than men,

but, when does criticism that's constructive become destructive?

Are there times when the ladies should just shut the fuck up?

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Saying I love you is easy.

What comes next is a little scrunchier.

Pick a little, talk a little (SATC)